Episode 374: Are You Seeking Validation, Permission, or Results?

Are you sick of feeling like you have to seek validation from sources all around you?

Do you feel you have too high of expectations of those around you?

Oftentimes we make assumptions and set expectations for those we interact with. People also do this to us.

The sooner you can learn to let go of unconscious expectations, the less you will care about validation from others. It’s so easy to want validation from other people.

I am here to say that YOU ARE ENOUGH.  The only validation you need is validation from yourself.

Think about ways in which you have overcompensated mothering or other aspects of your life based on your past experiences.  Learn to overcome those by recognizing that you don’t need validation from others.

You can’t control other people. Mom Is In Control is all about controlling yourself, not others. Where outside of you are you seeking validation?  Recognize those areas and catch yourself so you can overcome that to feel emotionally sound in your life.

Learn more by listening to episode 374 on the podcast, found here .  I discuss ways you can overcome the unconscious expectations you set for others.

“The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet.” - Mohadesa Najumi

If you make a conscious effort to overcome the need to feel validated by those around you, you will be able to more emotionally sound and feel better in your own skin.  We are the ones who need to believe in ourselves.

If you aren’t sure where to start, my team would love to talk with you to see if we can help.  You can click here to set up an intro call with my team member Sausha to see if my coaching is a perfect fit for what you need.



Episode 374: Are You Seeking Validation, Permission, or Results? 

In this episode, you will learn:

  • How to believe in yourself

  • How to overcome the desire to receive validation from others

  • How to overcome unconscious expectations you have for others

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Heather Chauvin